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Relationships

I wasn’t ever planning to write a post like this… relationships are complicated, layered, and sometimes a little uncomfortable to unpack. But lately, I’ve been doing a lot of reflecting. And if I’m being honest? I haven’t exactly had a long, consistent track record when it comes to friendships or romances. Shocking, I know 😄 Part of that is probably me. Actually… a good part of that is me. I’ve always had a bit of a stubborn, all-or-nothing personality, mixed with a very low tolerance for nonsense. I don’t do fake well. I don’t do drama well. And I definitely don’t do “let’s pretend everything is fine” when it’s not. Now, that doesn’t mean I’ve always been some kind of lone wolf. Quite the opposite. From school through my late 20s, I was what you might call… socially committed 😏 Out all the time, surrounded by friends from every possible group—different cliques, different personalities, different vibes. I never really had a “type” either when it came to dating. Jocks, artists, the br...
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I DID it! 😀

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  I did it… I broke 200!! 🎉   Back around Christmas, I was sitting at 240, and honestly—it feels a little surreal even typing that now. This hasn’t been about a strict, miserable diet or punishing myself into change. It’s been about finally (and yes…  finally  😬) deciding to pay attention to my health. Learning to manage my Type 2 diabetes, starting Mounjaro, and incorporating Factor meals gave me structure—but the real shift? Consistency over perfection. Turns out, the “boring basics” actually work: ✔️ Eating 3 solid meals a day ✔️ Adding in protein snacks ✔️ Not skipping meals and then wondering why I’m starving later Who knew? (Probably everyone… except stubborn me 😅) I’m not at the finish line yet—and I’m okay with that. I’d still like to lose another 15–20 pounds and then focus on maintaining. But now it feels doable, not overwhelming. I’ll be honest, exercise is still my “work in progress.” I love walking… but I do NOT love cold weather. Minnesota, I’m looki...
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Accountability 😇

Let’s talk about accountability… because if I’m being honest, mine shows up late, forgets why it came, and leaves without doing anything 😄 I always have good intentions. Truly. Gold-star, Monday-morning, “this is my week” kind of intentions. And then… somehow… I land just short of where I meant to be. Take this whole affiliate/influencer journey. I’ll sit down ready to create something great—and suddenly I’m spiraling. Is the hook good enough? Are the pictures boring? Should I redo everything? Maybe start over completely? So instead of finishing… I reevaluate. And reevaluate. And reevaluate some more. If overthinking burned calories, I’d be in incredible shape by now. And speaking of shape… let’s discuss exercise. I know strength training is important—especially at this stage of life. I want to be strong, toned, capable. But the second something feels even slightly uncomfortable? I’m like, “Well… that seems like enough growth for today.” 😬 Consistency? We’re still getting acquainted....
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My style 😬🧐

Let’s talk style… because honestly, mine is about as low-maintenance as it gets 😄 Most days, you’ll find me living my best life in jeans, t-shirts, and graphic tees. If I really have to “dress up,” I might reach for a nicer blouse and khakis—but let’s not get carried away. Now… when I’m back down south? That’s when she gets a little more feminine. Think easy sun dresses, comfy sandals, tank tops, sleeveless blouses, capris, shorts—and my personal favorite… skorts (because let’s be real, I am not always the most ladylike sitter 🙃). Here’s the thing about style in your 60s—it’s finally yours. No rules, no pressure, no trying to fit into someone else’s version of “age appropriate.” Your style might have evolved over the years… or maybe, like me, you’ve happily stayed in your comfort zone—and that’s perfectly fine too. This is the era of “you do you”… and I am fully here for it. That said, I do believe in a few good staples that make life easier: A crisp white top Classic black or navy...
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Sun ☀️ and being smart about it.

Sun worshipper? Guilty. 🙋‍♀️ I was that girl back in the day—baby oil, Sun-In, a spray bottle, and absolutely zero fear of consequences. If there was sunshine, I was in it…for hours. Fast forward to now: I still love the sun just as much, but I’ve finally learned how to enjoy it without paying for it later. ☀️ These days, I split my time between my pool at my southern home and living just minutes from the ocean—so yes, I’m in the sun pretty much daily. And if you know, you know…☀️ beach sun hits different. You tan faster, burn faster, and before you realize it, you’ve been out there all day because—let’s be honest—you didn’t pack up snacks, drinks, chairs, and towels just to leave after an hour. 😄 At home, I’m a little wiser. I actually go inside (most of the time). At the beach…well, that’s a commitment! Over the years, I’ve figured out that while locations and routines change, the must-haves never really do: ✨ A high-quality SPF 70+ sunscreen (yes, I said 70+—no playing around) ✨ S...
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